================================================ Subject: Re: ok time for stupid ? From: To: Date: Sun 23 Dec 2001 17:58:10 EST ================================================ Boy, I was hoping this one was over. But again, I can't keep my mouth shut. Well I guess it must be nice to be able to separate yourself from your emotions that way. It's called denial. I'm no longer married, but still have alot of love for my ex, even though he has done some terrible things to me. The guy I've been seeing is divorced, but he sitll goes out of his way to make sure things are going well for his ex. Example: She was driving a beat up rusted out little bucket, and he found her a safe reliable car (he's a mechanic) so he could be sure of 2 things: His daughter would be safe when with her mother, and his daughter would never lose her mother. Just the memory of the good times, and fun things you've done are enough to keep you CARING, whether you like it or not. But maybe that's only true if you're a kind, loving, compassionate person to begin with. Jen In a message dated 12/22/2001 11:37:39 AM Central Standard Time, annapatricks@HOTMAIL.COM writes: << you don't HAVE to CARE about the MOTHER to CARE about the KID. It is a fact, look at people who are divorced or don't ever marry & have children- they care about the kids but not neccessarily about the mother. I think you need to look outside your 'liitle' scheme of things b/c this is a fact of life for alot of people. I think your wrong and self-centered. >> To unsubscribe or change your preferences for the Creed-Discuss list, visit: http://www.winduplist.com/ls/discuss/form.asp