================================================ Subject: Re: nit wit needs help again From: To: Date: Wed 19 Dec 2001 02:37:22 EST ================================================ Well I hate mom and dad, and both brothers. My sister-in-law I can tolerate, and have actually shopping and other activities with her on occasion. Grandpa's a wonderful man, but I doubt if he'll be there because he's been very ill. Both Great-Aunts are decent women. I hate the cousins and about half of the aunts and uncles. They're a rotten group. There's also a wedding for one of my brothers in law on the 29'th. And I have to be there for that, because my daughter is one of three flower girls. I think that's paying my dues, and hopefully if I tell them I have work to do instead of being there for the Christmas gathering, they'll be understanding. But if they want to be jerks about it they can make my life a living Hell. Thanks for your opinion V, I don't feel as guilty now. Jen In a message dated 12/19/2001 1:06:28 AM Central Standard Time, Verrronica@aol.com writes: << Do you hate them all? Or just the mother and father-in-laws? If it were me, I'd go....for about 15 minutes. I'd walk in, say hello to the extended family members that you don't normally see, then I'd say, well the kids want to spend more time with you all, but I have somewhere else to be, I'll be back to pick them up later....or something to that affect. >> To unsubscribe or change your preferences for the Creed-Discuss list, visit: http://www.winduplist.com/ls/discuss/form.asp