================================================ Subject: Re: Check out Best Online Cards--TIME FOR AMERICANS From: To: Date: Tue 18 Sep 2001 23:38:39 EDT ================================================ In a message dated 9/18/2001 7:52:19 PM Central America Standard Tim, creed7m3live@columbus.rr.com writes: << Then a car it is! I cannot remember if I heard this from the fortune program. But I heard that the best way to get back on your feet is to miss two car payments. I never thought about selling a car. Before you got another one. Now, I really hope that you get the car. Well I had no idea my credit was so poor, and I didn't realize I'd made my last few payments late. But I figured that the fact that I paid off my car early to the company I'm trying to get financed with NOW, would benefit me. Plus I have a good 30000.00 equity in my house, good income, and no debt other THAN my house payment. And since I was also putting 13000.00 down on this new car, It didn't occur to me that I could be denied. And my sister wanted to buy my car, so I needed to make sure she could get approved herself before I bought the new one, in case I needed to trade it in. And she did, so I let her take the title to the bank so I'd have the extra money to put down. But if it comes down to it, I can put more down and hope they can approve a smaller loan. I was thinking about the issue. After the fact. But being interogated and chased and the whole "James Bond" environment of the dream world was pretty interesting. I won the three dreams. So it made them a bit more fun. I liked the dream about work. Two different economies and the female double agent. Sometimes, the individual dreaming mind beats hollywood, by miles. > Yes, dreams can be pretty intense. The day after the hijackings I had a dream that I was kidnapped, along with a bunch of other people, and we were all being executed. It felt pretty real. And I had one a few months ago about my husband, that the hospital called and told me he was still alive. It was very strange. I couldn't sleep after that. I came downstairs and read the letters I'd gotten from the Regional Organ Bank of Illinois, explaining who his organs were donated too. it was like I had to reaffirm that he was really gone, and not still in the hospital. > I value your principles. But I hope that the children are loved by the aunt. PLaying games against your true feelings is not worth the financial advantages. I've seen adults that are still under thier parents thumbs. Just to get the financial advantages. >> I hope it won't come down to that. I've always had a great relationship with her, but my mother and father in law tend to be the ones playing the games. My husband's cousin is very disliked by most of the family, but he's always had a good relationship with the grandparents, and the 2 great aunts that are still alive. And my in laws do a great job at keeping him away from them, because they think he's just out for the money. Which I know he's not. So basically, if I make my in laws angry with me, my kids won't be ABLE to maintain a good relationship with her, ulterior motives or not. Plus they are the ones making the financial decisions for her now that she's getting a little senile. But either way, I know that things will work out. Because I'm thinking ahead. And I look at it this way: I have no right to any of her money at ALL. And I"m not going to count on it. So anything above and beyond what I have now is a blessing. Jen To unsubscribe or change your preferences for the Creed-Discuss list, visit: http://www.winduplist.com/ls/discuss/form.asp