To solve your problem, you could do what I did. I have aol but I set up a hotmail account just for the list mail because I was noticing that there was alot of mail that I wasn't getting.. I would look at the list mail on my aol addy then look at my list mail on my hotmail account and I saw alot of posts on my hotmail account that I never saw show up on my aol account. Lee was having the same problem as well. 

Nikki

I have a question. What is the one thing that is completely out of our control? What has no face, no personality, no beginning and no end? What transcends all race, culture and language, and dictates our actions and keeps us nsync? Give up? Some have more, some have less. It all depends on what you decide to do with it. Everyone has the opportunity to shine. Everyone can have their moment in the spotlight. Others will have their time, but this is our time, the only difference, we're here to stay.